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Washing

Sunday October 18th 2009 | by Jo [mail] | Categories: Being a Mummy

I'm not especially houseproud. In fact I'm quite untidy yet I yearn to be a tidy person. The problem is I'm essentially lazy and there is almost always something I want to do more than tidy up.

Most domestic chores are fine, I don't particularly love or hate any of them. Apart from washing. Washing is rubbish.

Follow up:

I cannot believe the amount of washing a family of five generates. I could have my washing machine working morning, noon and night and I still wouldn't keep up. I'm also not very good at washing. I know, it seems ridiculous to not be good at something that is very uncomplicated, but it would appear that I can't manage it at all. I never manage to keep socks paired. I often fail to get stains out of clothes. I can frequently shrink things. Sometimes I even dye things.

I wonder if I cut down the amount of stuff we had then would it all seems simpler. Perhaps everyone in our house should just have three outfits? One to wear, one to be in the washing machine and one to be in the tumble dryer/ironing pile. Then at least I wouldn't feel consumed by the sheer volume of stuff. Yet given our attempts at potty training thus far three outfits would last Kitty til lunchtime at the latest.

So I guess the only alternative is to not let the washing get me down and to make sure that I keep on top of it. We are starting a new system of washing baskets. Perhaps that will help? Any tips though are gratefully received. More from the mundane reality of real life soon.

7 comments

Comment from: zooarchaeologist [Visitor] · http://www.beingamummy.co.uk
My tip would be to make the husband do it, job done.
Tuesday October 20th 2009 @ 17:05
Comment from: Alex [Visitor] · http://www.daddacool.co.uk
We operate a system thats not complicated- wifey rams stuff into the washing machine and whoever is in the kitchen rams the finished load into the tumble dryer (apart from my work shirts which get hung up to dry). The stuff then sits in a pile until we can be bothered to put it away. The ironing usually gets done once a week, by wifey in the most part but I sometimes do it whilst watching the footy (I plan to iron 6 workshirts tonight whilst watching the champ leauge for example).

I know Harry can do his bit by not changing his grundies and t-shirt for as long as he used to leave between changes at uni, you've probably domesticated him ;)
Wednesday October 21st 2009 @ 14:27
Comment from: Jo [Member] Email · http://www.joneary.com
I'll happily carry on waging war against the never ending washing. I don't want to add to hubby's current workload of joint childcare, bin emptying, grass cutting, cooking, shopping, flat pack furniture constructing, Ipod loading, car maintaining and putting up with a hormonal, stressed, tired and slightly over the top wife. Not to mention the paid job he does that keeps a roof over our heads. It might just tip the fragile equilibrium we maintain.

Ironing - what's that?
Wednesday October 21st 2009 @ 23:02
Comment from: Alex [Visitor] · http://www.daddacool.co.uk
My friend Miles day goes like this:

*Night time feeds
*6am get up with 1 year old
*7am get 3 year old up
*7.30am breakfast nippers
*8am arrive at work
*5.30pm leave work
*5.45pm dinner
*6.15pm- load dishwasher, hose down children etc
*7-8pm- put both children to bed
*8pm-10/11/12 (depending on chore list) do bottles, laundry, ironing, cleaning,etc whilst wife has a rest after day looking after children.
*goto beginning.

I've stopped complaining at everything I do because compared to Superman Miles, I have it easy :)

It definitely is a case of everyone mucking in though, the nippers are only little for a while so there will eventually be an end to it and I know how hard it is looking after them all day and wouldn't want claire to spend all evening at it after spending all day at it :)
Friday October 23rd 2009 @ 10:07
Comment from: Jo [Member] Email · http://www.joneary.com
plus i guess you've got to play to your strengths. I'm sure H hasn't forgotten the brown cardigan incident. My beautiful cardigan became Kitty sized after some over eager washing. He can stick to getting toddlers back to sleep and I'll stick with the washing.

But the bottom line is - life is never dull with little ones. Just wish you could sometimes press pause!
Friday October 23rd 2009 @ 12:54
Comment from: Jo [Member] Email · http://www.joneary.com
Just re read your post re Miles. What exactly does his wife do? Sounds like she has got the easy side of the deal. Just two children? I think I might offer to swap.
Friday October 23rd 2009 @ 20:06
Comment from: Alex [Visitor] · http://www.daddacool.co.uk
She basically gave up her career to be a housewife so the spread of childcare reflects her sacrifice. She does all the weekday cooking, all the craft activities (including gardening) with the two (she's preggers with the third atm). And since her two are 18 months apart, they don't really play with each other yet like the twins do.

But yes, she does have it relatively easy imho ;)
Friday October 23rd 2009 @ 21:05

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